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The response I most wanted/feared/hoped for/dreaded has arrived. I just heard back from my grandmother in a letter, because she loves writing letters.

There's a lot of family-related stuff in here, and I'll not bore you all with it, just get to the meat:

Dearest Granddaughter,

I know you are anxious to hear if I'm sad or discouraged in you. Maybe a little sad because you are missing the joy that I know because Christ is my love and joy. I will refrain from preaching to you when I write.

I do have a word for Mike though. I'm sorry, Mike, that you didn't get to know your Mom's God. I was close to your age when God took my mother. I didn't get mad at God. Probably because I knew Him. I may be wrong in you not knowing God.

Lorrie, when I write I'll not preach to you so don't think every time I write I will. Love for our children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews... if our hearts are Godly we don't cross them off if we don't like some of the things they do.

I love the bond I have with you; it's probably special to you also.

You'll have to bear with me in one more thought. Paul in the New Testament met some people who worshipped many gods. He called to their attention to one of their gods they called the Unknown God. Paul said "This god is known to me as the One True God." They listed the Unknown God for they were afraid of leaving out a god.


Dear Jesus:

I know you're trying your best, but the world could use a more Christians like her.

Best regards,

-- Lorrie

nice!

Date: 2004-11-30 01:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blackbriar.livejournal.com
I can totally respect that.

Re: nice!

Date: 2004-11-30 01:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Me too...

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] darthfox.livejournal.com
[hugs] that's good news, eh?



Dear Lorrie,

Tell me about it.

signed,
nobody's taking your name in vain ...

Date: 2004-11-30 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
*grin* Yep.

I'm knitting her a scarf for WinterThing...

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 01:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] colubra.livejournal.com
Here's to Christians who actually are followers of Christ.

Date: 2004-11-30 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Indeed! Hear, here!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 03:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] walkyrja.livejournal.com
Amen. Seriously.

Date: 2004-11-30 01:34 am (UTC)
witchchild: (anime head)
From: [personal profile] witchchild
That's good to hear. *hugs*

Date: 2004-12-03 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
*hugs* Yep! Yay!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 01:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shantak.livejournal.com
Oh, that's so sweet. I'm glad this is her response.

--Shanta

Date: 2004-12-03 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yes, I thought so too! *happybuttwiggle*

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wynkat1313.livejournal.com
What a wonderful response from what sounds like a really amazing woman. All hail grandmothers with wisdom and wise open hearts. As others have already said, would that there were more like her in the world. She's a keeper!

Date: 2004-12-03 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Hear, hear!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 03:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] walkyrja.livejournal.com
This is truly excellent of her. Jesus must be glad to have people like that on his side. Seriously.

*relieved hug*

Date: 2004-11-30 08:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] saskia139.livejournal.com
*I*'m glad Jesus has people like that on his side (which is also my side), 'cos as Anne Lamott saith, a lot of people make Jesus want to drink gin out of the cat dish. *hugs to Lorrie*

Date: 2004-12-03 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Durn tootin'!

*hugs*

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 04:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lysana.livejournal.com
Lovely. I could see the tension in her desire to preach versus her love for you in those words, and the love won out. Very cool.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yep, yep.

In her younger days, she would pick up hitchhikers... so she could witness to 'em.

Nothing ever happened to her because of it.

She's a grand lady. I've got another good story to tell about her, but it should have its own entry if I ever tell it.

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 04:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] torinosu.livejournal.com
Way to go, Jesus! Please talk to Ted's mother and sister. Amen, Janice.

Seriously, this is awesome. I'm really happy for you.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Thanks!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 04:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolfs-daugher.livejournal.com
*hugs* I'm so happy that you got a reasonable response from the woman who's opinion is important to you. Now the sister-in-law idiot can go jump in a lake!
Blessings, dear!

Date: 2004-12-03 01:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
That woman is no sister of mine. She is my brother's wife and that's as far as I'll recognize that chit.

The lake, however, I would not mind if it were, say, studded with a rusty nail or two. Gods forbid she should get tetanus.

-- Lorrie

[This post brought to you in part by [livejournal.com profile] dasubergeek, who points out that in Judaism, it's okay to curse anyone to anything as long as you say "God forbid," because then you don't really mean it.]

Date: 2004-11-30 05:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trogula.livejournal.com
That's so great! I'm so happy for you.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Thanks!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 06:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] temve.livejournal.com
I totally second your comment. That is good, very good.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yep, yep!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 07:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] apel.livejournal.com
I may be wrong in you not knowing God.
She had me at "I may be wrong". Honest to God humility is good for the soul. Not to mention that it leaves room for negotiating and resolving conflicts in a way that everybody can live with.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Well, I think she was saying that Mike might not know God, from context, but still.

Yes. She's quite humble, among her other virtues.

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 07:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dubhain.livejournal.com
Sensible woman. Sounds like good people. She's a treasure and a compliment to your family.

Glad at least most of your relations are being decent folk, and not asshats like the few others. My compliments to her, even though I realize they'll never be presented.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yes, and we surely do value her -- even the asshats, actually.

Thanks!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 08:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quirkwidget.livejournal.com
Oh!

What a lovely, and loving, response. Forget *Christians* -- the world could use more *humans* like her.

*hugs and slightly teary smiles*
Laura

Date: 2004-12-03 01:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
*hugs* You're absolutely right...

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 10:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jdemorae.livejournal.com
What a wonderful woman. :) I hope the glow in your hearts lasts long and shines ever brighter.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
She is, and me too!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 10:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emberleo.livejournal.com
Now that's what Father John said Christians are supposed to be like!

God[s] bless your Grandma!

--Ember--

Date: 2004-12-03 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Ayuh!

May they ever do so!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 02:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] arc-stormcrow.livejournal.com
::breathes a sigh of relief, nods, hugs::

Date: 2004-12-03 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
*nodnods and hugs back*

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 05:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mendou.livejournal.com
YAY!!! Loving granddaughters get loving grandmothers and all is right with the world.

I'm very happy for you. Your love for your family rang so painfully clear in your letter and it echoes beautifully clear in hers.

M

Date: 2004-12-03 01:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yay! Thank you!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 06:08 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] tanrinia
yay. i know that is a huge worry off your mind :)

lees

Date: 2004-12-03 01:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Fwoof. You got that right!

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 06:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wodandis.livejournal.com
Wow, a *real* Christian! I'm so glad she lived up to your faith in her. ((((hugs))))

Date: 2004-12-03 01:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Yep, a rare breed but they're not yet extinct in the wild!

*hugs*

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-11-30 07:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] theaceofspades.livejournal.com
I am very, very glad that she wrote this. After the poison of the last letter, this one must be a balm to the spirit. It's clear that she loves you, and even if she doesn't agree with your path, is doing her best to be respectful of it.

I can tell you that it's clear that you and your grandmother share a depth of faith and a tolerance that is strong and vital. I applaud her for being able to put love, which is, to me, the purest essence of Divinity we have, ahead of dogma.

Date: 2004-12-03 01:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Hear, hear!

*hugs*

-- Lorrie

Date: 2004-12-03 05:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] heathenhulagirl.livejournal.com
Wow, that's actually beautiful.

I wish I'd told my grandfather, but my mom pleaded with me never to tell him so I didn't. I don't think he could have dealt with it anyway. He stretched a lot over the years but some places he just could never go, I found that out when I told him about my relationship with my bf. It was not a good thing.

Yours,
ayla

Date: 2004-12-03 09:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lwood.livejournal.com
Go back a couple entries -- did you see what she's replying to?

And thank you for the kind words!

-- Lorrie

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